That’s the entire essence of this blog; rather than complaining about why men should change (which they should!
), it’s more powerful to understand the people you’re trying to date.
Here’s what’s happened in the past year — two girlfriends have gotten engaged, and one has her condo on the market and is looking with her boyfriend to buy a new place and move in together. So, because of that and the fact that we live longer, she says, it’s worth putting the time and energy into looking for love regardless of your age.
They are all 50-something, empty-nesters and divorced. The difference between men and women at this age, however, is that we don’t necessarily want the same things.
If you’re going to understand the male dating experience, a great place to look is online, where, generally, as in real-life, men are the pursuers and women are the pursued.
Over the years they have learned how to please a man and are not afraid to show off their skills.
Mature ladies know what they want in life, thus being much more emotionally stable.