When you BELIEVE and ASSUME that you are irresistibly attractive and that a man (or any man) wants you hardcore, it often comes about.
Thing is, sometimes women make “identities” out of their problems – what starts out as a quirky, lighthearted complaint keeps getting repeated until it suddenly becomes their reality and they believe that this is out of their control.
If a relationship “makes you” crazy, neurotic and paranoid, it is inevitable that the relationship will fall apart (and it will fall apart even quicker if you on your crazy, neurotic, paranoid state of mind and blame him for it…) Fill your life with activities you love, people you love, etc. I remember one girl that I at first, but found really attractive.
I’m not trying to say that being “hate-able” is a strategy for getting guys attracted. They’re kind of gray, on-the-fence, neutral thoughts unless spiked with emotion or inspiration from the outside.The real issue here is what is the problem that In other words: If you can have the ones you don’t want wrapped around your finger as love slaves, then something about you “wanting” someone is what’s causing the real problem here.