Sunday, June 22, 2008, AM Like many others, I am turned off by the "fat lifestyle" more than the actual fat.
My hubby is very overweight, which didn't bother me at first.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I'm turned off by fat men (more than 40 lbs overweight) for the same reason "shuts the attraction off" - obesity is a sign that something's wrong in his life and he's not dealing with it. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I LOVE a well rounded chubby man!
Not huge and blubbery with monster thighs that rub together when he walks.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM Only very recently have I started viewing fit & toned men as more attractive than fat men.
I used to generally be drawn to fat men and prefer to date them because I didn't want to date anyone who was smaller than me or had a much fitter body than me; it was a total attraction killer.
But, if you want to keep a woman around, you need to take a look at your lifestyle.
Sunday, June 22, 2008, AM I'm a guy that used to be fat. When I was fat there wasn't a girl around that would give me the time of day.
He has zero muscle tone, and his fitness capability is limited to about a 25 minute stroll before he is tired.
He eats almost entirely garbage (bacon cheeseburgers) which makes him even more lethargic.
(he's 6'4") We're both working hard to lose weight though and I'm happy that my healthy eating habits are rubbing off on him and his healthy exercise habits are rubbing off on me. Everyone seems to have a different opinion, I always feel more comfortable with a man who is much bigger than I am.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My hubby was SO skinny when we first started dating. He has gained some weight but is still super fit and trim. However, I like a man who is broad across the shoulders, and this can really only be achieved by weightlifting. A really muscular guy I like OK, but a muscular guy with some fat, so I can't see all the weird muscle lines is what I like most. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM If a man is obviously overweight as opposed to being bigger because of muscle, then they are a definite turn off.I tend to be more about the personality than the physical.